Secondhand Pariah: A Plea for Empathy from the Girlfriend of a Sex Offender

One morning in January of 2014 my life changed forever. Out of nowhere, seven highly militarized FBI agents wielding guns and a search warrant raided the home that I shared with my partner. Barely awake, I couldn’t believe what was happening. Then we discovered his charges: possession and distribution of child pornography.

He is not a monster; he is not even attracted to children. While he was on a torrent site looking for music to download, he came across pornographic images that he thought he’d check out, against his better judgment. He didn’t actively trade or send images, but due to the nature of torrenting his computer uploaded the files to other users. In just an instant he crossed a very dangerous line. Full Blog Post

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Ugh, that Valigator that is posting in the comments is so vile and repulsive, it makes my skin crawl. So “IT” attacks a person who was literally an innocent bystander who is dealing with the shrapnel of the aftermath of such a life changing moment? What a scumbag.